How honored am I to pass you
Li haoqian, male, Manchu, born in November 1997, is a member of the Communist Youth League. He is a 2016 student majoring in Japanese in school of foreign languages, Beijing University of technology. He has won three first-class scholarships for excellent students, the second place in the Japanese department, with a weighted average score of 91.28 in the first six semesters; the second prize in the century cup competition; and the honorary titles of "excellent League member" and "excellent student".
Story begins in junior year
At the beginning of September 2018, I was employed as the tutor of "academic guidance" of the school of foreign languages and the tutor of "peer" of Mingde college.
Before that, when the director found me to communicate with me, I was a little hesitant. Because from September 2018, I am facing the arrival of my junior year. Junior year is a very important joint point and a time when one decides his future direction. Many people begin to prepare for the future in their junior year, while many fall into deep confusion in their junior year. So at the beginning, I didn't plan to undertake the related work in the junior year. However, with the recommendation of the guide and the temptation of comprehensive test plus points, I finally went on. But in today's eyes, I'm very glad that I took over the task. And sincerely thank my guide, gave me such an opportunity, let me as a "mentor" and you know, help each other, learn from each other, grow together.
I still remember the scene when I tutored you Japanese for the first time. Before taking over your coaching task, I have inquired about your situation from the guide, so in the first class, I made sufficient preparation, full of expectation, holding "I can! I can help you! " I'm determined to keep the appointment on time. However, when I arrived at the appointed place, it was the empty classroom that greeted me.
It's half past six. It's almost half past seven when you show up at the door of the classroom. As soon as you enter the classroom, you lower your head and trot all the way from the classroom door to your seat. Then you raise your blushed face and say to me earnestly and gasping: "I'm really sorry, sir, something happened temporarily, I'm late.". I saw the sweat on your face, and the same hair style as the chicken coop blown by the wind. I don't know why, my anger disappeared for a moment, and even you made me laugh.
After a little exchange of greetings and explanation of the reason for being late, we immediately entered the main topic of coaching. In the process of tutoring, I found that you are like a bottomless hole with endless knowledge gaps. Every time I want to start, I find that more basic knowledge needs to be consolidated before I can go on to the next step. In the first class, although I have done enough preparation, I still feel that "heaven will give us more responsibility".
But, slowly, in the process of follow-up coaching, I found that this feeling is less and less, every class, I can see your progress. Although our coaching progress may be a little bit slow, I can see that in class, you are listening to me attentively. After class, you are thinking about what I said and what I said repeatedly. I am very pleased. For the first time, I felt a kind of satisfaction and pride as a "teacher". Your invisible feedback, in fact, is also silently encouraging me, encouraging me, and once and again firmly determining my initial choice.
In the last class, you gave me feedback on your experience in class. Not much, but let me remember. You said: "senior, in fact, you are very" fierce "in class, really fierce. Maybe it's related to your rigorous attitude towards learning, "you paused, and then said," but it's OK. I can understand it. "
After hearing your feedback, I was shocked: when I unconsciously shared knowledge, it gave me a fierce feeling. But what I feel more is surprise, surprise at your tolerance and understanding. I am surprised that after listening to you, there is a kind of unspeakable warm feeling flowing in my heart.
Recalling the lessons we had together, I suddenly realized that there are many times when my words will be more intense, my requirements will be more strict, even sometimes, it will make you feel a little uncomfortable. However, you have never been impatient, and even, compared with my tolerance of your lateness and helping you to make up for the loopholes in knowledge, it is more like your tolerance of my "ferocious teaching style", helping me realize the other side of me in a way that does not hurt my feelings.
When I was a freshman and sophomore, I used to hold some positions in the Department, hold some competitions, and often communicate with the elders, sisters, brothers and sisters to do student work. Maybe it's the reason for generation to generation inheritance. I always think that it's the responsibility of a minister and an elder to be inclusive and understand and take care of everyone. But they are gradually ignored. In fact, the so-called ministers and predecessors need to be tolerated and understood. They will also be moved by these small tolerations and understandings, and even encouraged.
In retrospect, in fact, when I joined the Beili Dance Troupe in my sophomore year, my head, called Xuejie, once told me that she said: "haoqian, except for your first year, I'm just a college student like you, a student who just entered the ivory tower for a short time. There is no trouble for me. I have been taking care of you unilaterally. In the process of getting along with you, I have also gained a lot. Every day, I am inspired, encouraged and inclusive by you. You've moved me a lot more than what I've done for you. " When she said this, I agreed with the meaning of the words, but I couldn't empathize because I didn't know what kind of moving she said. It wasn't until that day that I heard your feedback, got your understanding, and was moved by your tolerance that I really understood what the "moving" was like.
We have just left the place where we only need to study. We are exploring our future life style in University and how to deal with people better. We are constantly absorbing the experience left by our predecessors, and at the same time, we share our own experience and insights without reservation when the younger generation comes. Generation by generation changes, year by year experience sharing, in the "Tieda" University, it seems that it has never stopped. However, sharing, sharing, gradually formed a sense: encouragement, help, tolerance are one-way, is "top to bottom". But gradually forget that encouragement, help and tolerance have always been two-way. It's because of your understanding that we can see different landscapes; it's because of your tolerance that our experience can be enriched; it's because of your encouragement that we can fight more bravely and be full of energy. You are an indispensable part of our growth.
In fact, it's not just you, but we all need gardener's watering for our blooming, but it's not a one-way help. Because at the same time of our blooming, we also nourish the gardener's heart. It seems that people watered the flowers, but in fact, the flowers also raised people.
I sincerely appreciate the meeting with you, so that I can be honored to be a passer-by in your four years of University, to help you grow, to share your joy, to accept your gifts, so as to complete my own journey and to see different landscapes.
thank you!
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